I’m at a loss.

We had sex all the time. Like 20-25 times a month. Just for fun. Not trying to get pregnant. Just having fun. Then I got pregnant the first month we tried. Now it’s been three weeks since we found out and we’ve had sex a handful of times.

Nevermind the fact that I’m super horny all the time and in general I loooovveeee having sex with him. I’d even be on top all the time if he would let me. But that’s the thing. He won’t let me. He makes no moves on me. He comes home from work, takes a shower, gets stoned then watches a movie and goes to bed. In the morning, even if he’s hard, I’ll try to make a move on him and he pushes me away. Like I have no fucking clue what to do to get this man to have sex with me.

But here’s the thing....

I come home and there’s a crusty towel in the laundry and pornhub on the iPad. Like really? You turn me down ALL THE TIME but then jack off into a washcloth? I’ve seen on his texts with an ex that she would get pissed because he would jack off because she wouldn’t have sex with him. I want all of the sex with him, and he’s still jacking off into a towel when he’s got a perfectly good pussy to stick his dick into.

I just don’t even know what to say to him that I haven’t already said.

What would you say? What would you do?