Worry wart 😕

So I’m 12 weeks and everything seems to be going just fine aside from the fact that I’m having a heck of a time controlling my temper and just irritable all around...I’m obviously one to sit and research and read since this is my first.. I keep coming across stories that are making me so scared. I’m already worrying enough and whenever I go to my support for welll support I’m just told to brush it off and everything is fine. I also don’t want to be the mom who is constantly calling into the office or wanting to go to the emergency room just to have scans and other unnecessary tests done when everything could be just fine. Any advice on what you second and on mother’s have done to keep your mind at ease aside from your everyday responsibilities that you do throughout your days??