👏🏻👏🏻I deserved better👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I was engaged to a guy I didn’t marry. A guy I spent six years with. I didn’t know what love was like back then and I didn’t know what a healthy relationship was. Our relationship was nothing short of toxic but I didn’t listen to everyone that told me. I lost friends and stayed away from my family. I thought I was so in love. Truth is he cheated on me several times and I kept forgiving him. He would make me cry everyday and put me down. I got depressed and my self esteem plummeted. I kept everything to myself. But I refused to see all the bad stuff. I thought I had to stay with him because we had already been together so long or maybe he’d start to treat me right eventually .....LADIES NO!!!!

If you’ve ever had that thought cross your mind that maybe they’d love you more or be better if you did this or looked better then GET OUT!! I spent so much of my life letting a guy feel shitty and that should never happen. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 IF HE DOESNT LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE THEN HES NOT RIGHT FOR YOU👏🏻👏🏻

After six years I finally got the courage to leave him it was the hardest thing I had ever done. We lived together and had joint accounts and everything. He took all my money and I had nowhere to live, but I figured it out. Even with all this it was the best thing that I’ve ever done....I stood up for myself.

Fast forward to the present now Ive met the most amazing man. Everyday he treats me with so much respect. He wakes up everyday telling me I’m beautiful and can do anything. He puts my needs above his own. He’s everything I’ve ever wanted and everything I didn’t even know I wanted. He makes me laugh every second and makes me feel so comfortable. I trust him completely. He’s amazing and I’ve never been happier. It’s hard but I can promise you there’s someone out there that will make you feel like the world. I’ve found mine and I hope all you ladies find yours!!!

For the one girl that needs to hear this please do not settle this isn’t love and you can find someone who loves you. I promise. The man god made for you is out there preparing for you.

P.S this amazing man and my best friend asked me to be his wife and I couldn’t stop crying. I prayed and dreamed for him for so long.....Plus look at how beautiful my ring is perfectly simple and slightly unique 😱😱😱😱😱❤️❤️❤️❤️