I am 21w 5d. I was just diagnosed with Lupus. I don't know how to handle the news and everything I read online is awful! My Neonatal Lupus test came back 100% and I'm not sure how to cope. I'm scared my baby might not be okay.. I've read that preterm labor happens in most cases along with heart defects and kidney problems for baby..

Has anyone else been through this or know someone who has?

What's the longest I'll be lucky to carry him until?

What can I expect as far as after he is born for both him and I?

ANY advice would be greatly appreciated!