S.O saying you've put on weight, would you appreciate their honesty?

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I have a scale and I have eyes.. Trust me, I will be the first one that noticed that I have gained weight. Definitely need nobody to tell me that.

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Depends on how they say it! And why they’re saying it. If they said “you’ve gotten fat” or something like that and aren’t happy you’ve put on weight because of their own issues then they can do one! But if it’s a genuine conversation where you aren’t happy with the weight you are and they encourage and support you then it’s totally different. Either way it’s your body and up to you what you do xxx

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Personally not really, my boyfriend said to me the other day. Damn babe your thighs have gotten thick I got very self conscious. He said to me babe, I love them, you are pregnant you can’t expect to gain no weight while growing a baby.
His comment definitely helped and I realised sometimes they don’t mean to be mean, they just have no filter 😂

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Its better to acknowledge it yourself and say it before he does lol “ugh I’ve gained weight” he probably won’t say shit or he’ll be like “yea you have babe” and you’ll be like “fuck you what are you trying to say!” And he’ll say “nothing babe! You look fine” 😂😂😂

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Well, I hope u started off saying first of all bitch, I'm pregnant if u hadn't realized!😤😒😡🤬

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My Husband and I met because we enjoy active and healthy lifestyles that was part of the attraction for us. We expect to remain fit and healthy so I wouldn’t have a problem with my Husband being concerned about my weight. I expect it. He hasn’t made any comments about my weight gain NOW and walks with me daily BUT I’m pregnant. Talking about my weight now would make him a complete douche which he isn’t. 
 
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It really depends on the delivery. If he says it in a hurtful way then no I don’t want to hear it. My husband and I are fairly open with our communication and openly acknowledge that we both gained unwanted weight and are working toward losing it together.

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Crazy that 40% said no...u cant have a healthy relationship if ur not being completely honest with each other...

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My husband of 6 years and I tell each other when we are getting a little fluffy. Sometimes we don’t really notice ourselves but we appreciate the honesty. We keep each other in check. No hate here!

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My husband once made a rude comment about me gaining weight idk why he thought it would be fine and I let him know that hurts my feelings... well he is waaayy heavier then me and I just had to mention that I love the way he looks and I don't ever call him fat... well he apologized but I didn't let him off that easy so he remembers next time he should think about what he is going to say before he says it.🤦

S.O saying you've put on weight, would you appreciate their honesty?

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