So I'm pregnant and due December (my 4th), I have a family member who is also due in December (her first), we're "related" via marriage, well she had her baby shower and I wasn't even invited, I tried to let it roll off me but it did sting a bit, I told myself "well she likely wanted to be the only pregnant lady or something, I don't blame her"

Well I've since found out that apparently something like 6 other women that went are pregnant too.

I'm trying hard to just shrug it off, it was her party and stuff but my feelings are pretty hurt and I keep wondering what I must have said/done or something.

I'm not really sure why I'm making this, just looking to vent I guess. According to another family member I don't really have a right to be sad and I should have just "invited myself" (seriously??)