Cheating *UPDATED*

I’ve been dating going out with guy for almost 4 months now. He’s friends with this girl and it’s really obvious that she likes him, she always flirts with him and every now and again he seems to flirt back.

Me and him literally never argue, and when we do it’s just a small debate. He’s always amazingly nice to me, for my birthday he spent over 6,000 on me. He spoils me constantly, I always tell him not too but he always does. I come from a not very well off family so I don’t know if that’s why he does it.

But one of my friends went behind my back and became friends with the girls that likes Xavier (my boyfriend) when they was talking she found out that Xavier told mika (the girl) that he likes her. My friend couldn’t believe it since he doesn’t seem the type of guy to cheat. Mika showed the messages of him saying this. So he really did say these things.

I confronted him and he said that he only told the girl that he liked her because he felt bad for her, it didn’t mean anything and he regrets doing it.

Please give advice on what I should do. I am going to keep updating this. Please leave what you would do and what you think I should do 💕😔

*UPDATE*

Him and his friends went to the bar tonight and one messaged me saying to come get him since he has been drinking for a while. So I went and when I went he was with a girl, she was giving him a lap dance and they was kissing. This is now cheating but I can’t seem to bring myself to break up with him. I love him too much 😔