I'm feeling so alone. My husband is not standing up for me to his mother. Well. .he is, but it's so passive aggressive about it, that it doesnt get the point across.

Shes been such a witch to me since our daughter was born. Between trying to force her way into delivery and saying untrue things about me and my family, threatening to take us to court, I've had it. This last issue, finally was the last straw for me. I've been belittled, put down and named called, and had to apologize every time, to many times, and its causing serious strife between my husband and I.

This time, I lied trying to protect my husband from his mother bugging the crap out of him the whole weekend I was gone. She seems to not bug him as much when I'm there. Anyways, I said I was doing a day trip versus spending the night. Well, she found out by our baby sitter (mutual friend) that I was actually going away for the whole weekend. So she now said I was abandoning my 5 month old daughter because I was going away for the weekend, and leaving her with HER FATHER.

My husband is fine with it. Now since shes found out, she wants me to apologize to her for telling her to mind her own business. I get apologizing for lying...and I will do so, but not for anything else. She thinks I'm being a bitch for ignoring her for my own sanity. Nothing I say to her right now will be good. But i feel as if I'm alone because my husband is pushing me to apologize to his mom so everything will be ok. Everything will not be ok. Not until his mother knows how serious i am about minding her own damn business. She needs to stop trying to control our child!

Be honest, and I being to petty? I just cant take it anymore.