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I'm a middle too!! Mostly because baby talking and that sort of stuff is too much for me and my daddy's favorite RP's are more middle appropriate. (I'm not completely immersed into the lifestyle, so we scene with a little bleed through with nicknames and stuff). That reminded me of this post which is really useful. I'm not really too knowledgeable on punishments since I'm LDR at the moment and our schedules make it hard but I'd love to talk and maybe learn some stuff together!I might be able to dig up some more posts since I have a ton saved from IG.
Middles are Always Getting Left-out
I’ve been into the DD/lg thing for a long time, but only within the past year or two have I been able to actually experience it.
I’ve tried to do a lot of research to fully understand it; mostly to be able to answer all of my fiancé’s questions (he’s my daddy). He was never into this kind of thing until we got together.
The problem in my case is that DD/lg is not only the titles for the people who choose this type of lifestyle/sexuality. It’s also an umbrella term for an entire subculture.
I’m more of a DD/mg... When my fiancé and I slip into those rolls, I feel more comfortable in the mind space of someone between the ages of 14-17.
I can’t find a lot of information about DD/mg relationships though, and it’s frustrating. My fiancé and I have talked about making it a full-time thing, but we both also feel that we would like to understand more.
Not to mention, he needs a little inspiration for the rules/punishments/rewards for a Middle. The majority of the stuff that we have found has been about littles. Lmao.
So if anyone could help me out here.... I’d really appreciate it.
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Okay. So I've been living the full time "middle" life for about two years now. My CG leaves me with daily chores. If I get everything done throughout the week while he's at work, he rewards me with new makeup or clothes. I have a 2 dogs and 2 cats that I'm also responsible for. They're kinda my friends instead of plushies like littles usually prefer. When I'm being bratty punishiments are usually spanks (my favorite). Stern talking to (but it a positive way. Never in a negative, abusing, or degrading way). And sometimes when I'm reallyyyy bratty, he deprives me of sex for a night. Which makes me behave the next day, always. Haha. I think the only awkward part about any of it, is when friends or family ask why I don't work. I have hella bad social anxiety, so not working is prime for me anyways. My CG can afford for me to stay home. And I do a lot a lot of house work. So it's not like I'm just chilling all day on IG. Lol. But people don't understand why I like being cared for or why he likes caring for me. And that's fine. We are both happy and enjoying it and that's all that matters.
su
this sounds so awesome!! my dom and i are working on pushing our 24/7 D/s into more ‘extremes’ like this, but it's a slow process.
I'm more of a middle too, if I had to pin point an age id say 6-10? (I went through trauma between those ages and so I guess it makes sense) there isn't a lot of middle stuff out their, so I think the best you can do is look back and think about what kind of rules you had at that age! All of my little friends want to watch my little pony and paw-patrol and I'm about adventure time haha.
Ro
ADVENTURE TIMEEEEEEE!!!!!!!
I'm a bit late to the party, but I fluctuate between little, middle, and Mommy depending on the situation. I would be happy to chat with you about what Daddy and I have come up with if you have any questions. I've been in the lifestyle for over a decade, and with Daddy for 5 years now. :)
Ro
I’d love to hear some about this too.
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