‼️Cant Cum During Sex😫‼️

Whenever i have sex with my S/O i cant cum. Its not him, its me. I can reach orgasm by rubbing my clit but i have to go at it for a long time and fairly rough. Also i have a viberator and can reach it with that, but once again it has to be on the highest speed.

Ive tried rubbing my clit during sex but i just cant seem to get there. And even if i do manage to cum after sex, i usually will do it myself till my hand is numb from rubbing for a long period of time😫.

My S/O at one point thought i “wasn’t attracted to him” and i talked to him and told him its literally not him, i just struggle to cum in general😫. Or it will get to the point where i feel like I’m going to, but i end up squirting and not even reaching orgasm. So frustrating, any tips?😫