TWW is killing me!

So my my chart is very different this month... never had a triphasic shift before and my breasts are killing me. I had some dull cramping for 2 days and then not much after... sometimes a pinching feeling every once and a while. Tested yesterday and BFN, but I know it was too early. REALLY trying to wait until Friday, but dont know if I have the willpower! Lol. Oh and the crazy part is my husband was nauseated the 2 days I had cramping and the triphasic shift. Same thing happened to him with his first child years ago. 9 months TTC after Vasectomy 32 years ago and VR in February. God I pray this is it!!