Bladder issues on ob?

Honestly wondering if anyone’s had a similar experience. Okay, so-every outbreak I cant pee without intense pain. But I also can’t hold it. Holding it in makes it worse. It’s Like an awful uti. It’s so bad. It messes with the nerves in my bladder I think?

I sometimes have to wear incontinence undies. And it makes having an ob tht much more frustrating.

Has anyone else used them to cope?