My ex and I finally started talking about baby and he says he is going to get his own place and stuff for baby. He also said he will be taking not only our baby EVERY weekend but also my 3 year old. My 3 year old isn't even his and he just said " I can't take one and not the other." Ummm if you don't get counseling for your abusive behavior you won't be getting either of them and no way are you taking my 3 year old 3 hours away from me! He still thinks he is going to get her dad to sign rights over to him....

He just wants to be in control of everything. He told me the name I had picked out if we have a boy is stupid, insists that the baby will have his last name (it's not), etc. He told me months ago I wasn't allowed to get an epidural. Yet when I tell him things I think will be beneficial he just doesn't seem to care. I've already told him I don't want a ton of people in the delivery room but what I mean is I don't want his entire extended family waiting around because almost all of them at one point or another have cussed me out or threatened me. I also haven't told him yet but I really don't want him bringing his current flavor of the month to the hospital and I'd prefer my child not be around her unless they are serious. Is that unreasonable? He just seems to think he will be taking my newborn off whenever he wants when in reality my child isn't going anywhere alone with anyone until they are at least 6 months old.