Love life

I have been I. A serious relationship since last December. Going on 1 year strong. Here recently we’ve had a lot of problems. Our go to is communicate and compromise. We talk about our problems and we figure out a way to work through them. But recently things have changed. Feelings have changed. I feel like maybe hes not ready to be the man I need him to be. I know he loves me and cares but I feel like it’s just not working like it use to. I feel like his job is pushing us apart but he can’t leave his job because of financial issues. He’s told me before that he’d be ok with sharing me if I found someone who he agrees with. But the thing is I have found someone. Someone who kisses the ground I walk on. Someone who treats me as if I’m his queen. Someone who is proving everyday that he really really loves me. He would die for me. But my bf is treating me like I’m already his personal house wife. Like I’m his mom. I didn’t sign up to raise two kids when I only have one. I’m so torn. I don’t want to hurt my bf and I really do want things to work out. But at the same time I’m really in love with another guy. I don’t know what to do. Pleas help me!