Had Enough

I’ve been married to my husband for almost 7 months but we’ve been together for 13 years and have a 4 year old daughter together. That’s not the issue though, it’s his mother that’s the problem. He stops to see her after work everyday and then runs her all over the place on the weekend. It just feels like his wife and daughter are no longer a priority. Today we had made plans to take our daughter to a historical sight to do some trick or treating and that never happened. He tells me as I’m getting a few things together and making sure that our daughter uses the bathroom before we go that oh btw my mom is coming with us. I told him that I wasn’t going if she was going. As I’m fixing my hair I hear the front door open and I yell to him where he was going he didn’t answer. I made my way downstairs and see that he took our daughter and left. I called him and he said oh I’m picking my mom up. Needless to say that was the straw that broke the camels back. I flipped out on him and told him that this isn’t a mommy,daddy,baby,and grandma affair. It’s meant for us to spend time together as a family and have no extra wheels. If he didn’t bring our daughter home in 5 minutes I was going to call the police and make a report of kidnapping. I know that sounds threatening and makes me look like a psycho but if you were in my shoes and this was going on for your entire marriage you would be pretty upset too. He wouldn’t have a roof over his head, the job he has, and the car he drives if it wasn’t for my family and I. I want to pack my things and take my daughter with me to get away from him but the thing is that the house we live in has my name and my parents name on the deed. His family hasn’t helped us in any way at all. I think part of it has to do with that his siblings don’t want to get sucked back into the ugly mess that surrounds their mother. Any suggestions