Same Old Sex Life

my boyfriend and i had tried anal a while back but i decided to stop bc we didn’t have lube and now we do i feel like it would go a lot better. i mentioned it to him the other day and he said we could try again. well i just asked him now and he says he hasn’t even thought about it and he doesn’t know when (with an idc attitude) he wants to try again. our sex life has became the same old same old and i was looking up toys for the both of us and he said no to that, and now this. Tips? Advice? Anything! thanks. ❤️