My friend always turns conversations into “when you had a kid...”

I was just talking to her about how i got nothing done around my house on my day off and it’s making me super anxious. She goes “just wait until you start a family, a dirty house will be the least of your worry”. Or if We are talking about our days and how tired we are she always say “wait until you have a baby”. And after my fertility appointment yesterday she sent me a picture of her toddler messing up her house “saying are you sure you want a baby, you can have mine”. I’m currently struggling with infertility and would give anything to have my baby messing up my house and keeping me up all night. I don’t understand why she says that like I don’t know having a baby is a lot. Idk maybe I’m just over thinking It and being sensitive. Thoughts?