I need to VENT...will you listen?!?

I had my 17 week OB appt today...and I went alone. Husband and I separated shortly after I found out I was pregnant. Long story short....he had been unhappy with himself in our marriage...led to cheating. I found out...and honestly I think he completely shut down after that. He moved out and says that he’s not ‘good for me’ and needs to learn how to be a man on his own....blah blah blah. We’ve been together since 19 and are now in our mid-thirties.

Anyway, he says he loves me and misses me...but basically he’s not showing it.

So, I’m just alone. Sad. Confused. Upset. I feel betrayed and abandoned. He is so selfish and consumed with himself. I just don’t know how to move past it. It’s so much easier said than done.