What’s he mean???

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Can you ladies help me understand what my husband is saying?? I understand he has told me he no longer wants to try for children. It’s shattered my heart because all I want is a baby. I don’t understand the rest of what he’s trying to tell me.

Accepted Answer

He’s saying he’s done trying but doesn’t want to prevent. 
And will be happy no matter what happens. 
He wants you to stop being so stressed and upset by ttc. 
He sounds sweet!

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He is saying he loves you for you,no need to jump the gun with all the "what it's?"

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I dont mean to be mean or rude but you are reading way too much into what he is saying. hes just teling you that you dont need to put pressure on urself about having a baby and he is happy and content with your life right now as it is. he is happy with you he doesn’t want to leave you. and honey you’re worrying too much about all this, it will all happen when its meant too im waiting 2+ years but I know it will happen someday!

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He's saying he does want kids with you, but he if it doesn't happen it doesnt happen. That it's not going to change how he feels about you. And that you guys can still have unprotected sex so that way if it does happen then it will. He doesnt want you to stress about it because he doesnt want you to be depressed about something you cant control. And I have to say, i agree with him. I know it's hard and easier said than done. But just love this man because he clearly loves you a lot and just wants to enjoy you right now instead of having added stress or pressure. Sometimes if you stop stressing and thinking about it, that's when the miracle comes. 🤗

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To me- it sounds like he’s trying to back off TTC a bit. It’s great if it happens but maybe taking a step back for a while and not stressing about it. It aounds like he’s worried about the toll of it on you and wants to take some of the pressure off and that he loves you and his life with you no matter what.

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Don’t try, don’t prevent.. if you get pregnant then yay! Take the stress off of trying to get pregnant and being so upset when it doesn’t happen. Less stress and no worries then more chance of pregnancy 
He sounds like a keeper. Just relax and let things take their course

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He’s saying he wants children but isn’t to concerned about it not happening now and you should just go about your lives without the stress of wanting a baby. He wants a baby with you but he’s telling you that it’s taking over your life and stressing you out so if you guys stop trying and just enjoy eachother then it will happen when it happens.

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U need to chill out and wait... he wants to enjoy life with u for the moment and he stressing about having kids so much. He loves u for u. Enjoy life without kids, and if it happens it does. It seems like u have a good man, but u will drive him away from u with this “baby” problem

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He is just saying he loves you, and I gotta say, he is totally right!, dont stress out about getting pregnant, do t even try to get pregnant, before I had my daugther 2 years ago, I had to go get check to the fertility clinic as I had 2 miscarriages, they told me I was good, only my progesterone level was low, then I spoke to my husband and we decided we are just going to enjoy our life together and if I get pregnant then good if not then it isnt destiny just yet, and you know what? Once I stopped thinking about it, I got pregnant with my beautiful daugther 2 years ago. And now I am almost 7 weeks with my second which again we just decided I would stopped taking the pill just because starting now we wouldn't mind to be pregnant again, and right away I got off the pill, I got pregnant without thinking about it.
 You should listen to him, he is trying to get you to be happy and not stress out if the pregnancy doesn't happen right away!. I have friends that they were told they wouldn't be able to get pregnant because of chromosome issue, and now they have 2 kids and got pregnant without thinking to get pregnant. Your mind is very strong.

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He wants kids but he’s enjoying the now. He’s living in the moment. If you get pregnant or you don’t he’ll be happy either way because he loves and love the space y’all in now...take it one day at a time. You time will come but stressing won’t help anybody. Good Luck

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