Don’t even know what to say or write

How as anyone in the uk managed to make a relationship work with American military bloke?

I met him nearly 4 months ago and was a bit hesitant at first (had previous experience with military men and never ended well) he said if and when he found someone worthy he could always extent his stay to give us longer

well he put his form in for extended stay and seems like now he could be gone next December, I know there would always be slim chance but I guess I was just so stuck in this new person who had completely flipped my life round!

We are both devastated, me more so, he’s the first man to actually treat me with respect, and now seems like he’s being whipped away

The process of getting visa’s if not married take around 4/5 months (have already phoned and discussed this)

So stuck in a rut, the process seems very stressful for something that is so fresh still

Anyone been in similar situation that could give some advice?? I really do love the man

Sorry for the ramble, needed to vent 🙈