Masturbation: How do you talk about it with your partner?

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Do you discuss each time? 
Thoughts on porn? 
How does it change intimacy? 
Thanks!

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Why would I tell my bf every time I masturbate? The point of masturbation is alone time. 
We both watch porn alone, it’s just fantasy

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And to answer the third question it doesn’t change intimacy besides allowing me to actually orgasm 😂

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I definitely don't inform my husband, and he doesn't inform me. That strange.
We are both comfortable with porn. It has no effect on our sex life.

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My partner, & I watch porn together. We also watch it separately when we are apart. I would rather him jack off then to CHEAT. That’s just me though 🤷🏽‍♀️

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I was against porn when we started dating. We agreed no porn in the relationship. I didnt like the idea of him getting off to someone else. I would ask every once in a while if he had watched it. He would answer honestly and I never got mad. As weve been together and got married it doesnt me anymore. I know he doesnt look at other women (in real life) and he is always attracted to me. So I brought up porn a few times and finally told him Im fine with it. Sometimes we watch it together as foreplay and ask each other what we prefer to watch. Its not weird between us.

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We mention it occasionally but it’s not something we feel we have to bring up or anything, it’s alone time and it’s normal. He watches porn, I watch porn and we both do it occasionally. We also masturbate together after sex a lot since it’s the only way I can orgasm and he will join in most times haha

Masturbation: How do you talk about it with your partner?

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