So Halloween was just here as we all know, my mom wanted to come see my son whom is 7 months (she doesnt get to see him as much as she would like) well we were visiting my mother in law. The last time my MIL saw our son was when he was a month old. So my mother comments on my fb post saying this. My son was a roofer as that what me and his dad is :) fyi she never likes my posts about our son on fb she didnt even like this one just immediately got hostile commenting.

I didnt answer back as I had no idea what to say. My only issue is, my mom gets mad at me when I don't drop what I'm doing to come see her. A few weeks ago she said you dont have to be in my life than. We just visited her for over 6 hours a few days before. I never ever stand up to my mom, only because we've had serious issues in the past. I cant tell you how many times shes told me "you're dead to me." I dont like the drinking, I dont like the petty arguments. She can be the sweetest women but will talk behind my back and talk crap about my SO saying idk why shes with him and we wont last long. I'm just really at a loss for what to do, I told her nicely that i dont want my son around negativity due to what she said to me and that's where the conversation ended. I just... idk. Opinions?