Going out w/o kid(s)

Breanna • Jayce's mom💙 2 Babies in Heaven 👼👼; Don't take shit from petty ass bitches 💁🏼‍♀️

How often do you get a babysitter for your kid(s) so you and your SO can go out and enjoy time together? Me and my fiance have went out twice since having our son (9months) and only for 2 hours. But my family seems to think it's terrible to have a babysitter :/