So you can to make this story short me in my significant other have 2 kids together in 2 years and weren't technically together or dating before I got pregnant. So just had our daughter 2 months ago and as women it takes our hormones to get back to normal sometimes and I just don't feel like having sex and we weren't very active before maybe once or twice every 2 weeks and now I really just don't want to at all and I keep seeing this Mimi on Facebook that says if your man has to beg you for sex and not come home to a cooked meal every night you might as well get ready or help Tanya replacement something like that and every time I see it I just feel like that's me because I don't cook for him every night it's like we're roommates I don't feel like wifely duties because I'm not your wife I barely even consider us together I feel like we're roommates to have kids together like honestly that's what it is every time we funk we just happen to get pregnant which is stupid I got my tubes tied I learned my lesson but anyways the last time we had sex he was like can we just do something different you know he was trying not to hurt my feelings but he was trying to be honest so I can't blame him for that so now my insecurity is really fucky with me to the point where I know this it is about to end and I wanted to end but I'm scared for to end how selfish is that of me disgusting when I think about it how I only want what I want and what I don't want I don't want. I'm just in a badd position if the kids were older and I had a job I would go my separate way but I have nowhere to go so it's like I have to try a little bit so that my kids are OK and just sound so badd it's I'm not explaining it to 100% correctly but I just don't know what to do