Sadly, I have joined the ranks of millions of other married women who don’t enjoy having sex with their husbands.

He is very affectionate, touchy feely and kind to me. The sex just sucks. He has never gone down on me ( I have requested) and now he doesn’t even touch me down there. Couple months ago said he saw some toilet paper near my vagina and it turned him off. So sex is usually him sucking on my boob and me touching myself. Then he’ll insert himself last for about 1.5-3 minutes and cum. Sometimes he’ll get hard again. He asks why I don’t cum and I’m kinda like 🙄🙄🙄. It’s come to a point where I kinda don’t wanna have sex with him any longer bc even when we do (maybe 2-3 times a month) it’s not even good. Its not worth the shower 😂😂😂 I know he likes me shaven but I’m just like “for what?” It’s itchy and you don’t do anything down there. I suppose I’m getting to the “eff it” stage. I’m left fantasizing about sex with ex boyfriends (even though they were farrrr from real relationship material), especially one who would hold down and eat me out till I came at least 3 times. I miss these days.

On a for real note, I joke about this but it leaves me feeling unattractive and lonely. I’ve had frank conversations with him and it leads nowhere. Plus I’m pregnant and can’t leave. Lastly, I can’t have a side piece that goes against my morals. Any advice is appreciated.