It really depends on the quality and context of the rest of the conversation, the age range of the guy, his background, etc.I've had guys that said dirty stuff and were seriously jokes as relationship material. Then I've met some that said super inappropriate stuff but in person were actually really respectful and timid people. Even I've been guilty of being a bit too uninhibited in my conversations, but at 30 years old I've only had sex with 4 men in 16 years lolYou just have to go with your gut, and if you meet up with someone from online just make sure it's a public place and get a better vibe for them.

I see that a sign that that person is only out for one thing and one thing only... sex. Put him to the test, if you don't believe me. Try saying something like, "No offense, I'd really like to get to know you, but we haven't even cordially met yet, so I think it's too soon to talk about sex right now." See how fast he stops talking to you! Lol! But if he responds by saying, "Hey, that's cool! I completely understand! I won't bring it up again until you're ready," and actually sticks to his word about that, and actually keeps talking to you, then I see that as a sign of respect and a sign that he genuinely wants to get to know you.

no me and my current boyfriend talked about that stuff early on i think before meeting with each other. been with him for two years. however i will say we were never sexual with each other, just talked about our sexual history.

This is before meeting in person