I'm 26 weeks pregnant and due February 9th..

My partner is a manager at a company and travels over the UK alot with work meeting clients. Sometimes goes on Friday and dosent come back to Sunday.

When he goes away he takes a flight but never comes back after his meetings because he always goes out drinking with clients after. Then sleeps all day cause he's hungover so he always gets a later flight.

I booked a 4d scan for our baby on 17th (saturdag) November which was planned for weeks , if even few months.

My partner knew how important this was to me. But comes back tonight to say that he's going to meet a client and go out that Friday night before our scan . And won't be flying back till Saturday.. our scan is scheduled for 1.30pm .. instead of getting an early flight he wants to leave it till 12 and not be home untill 1... So therefore asking me to change the time till 3pm...

I'm fuming... ( I went mad at him saying he knew about This and he went and booked this with a client without discussing it with me first..) he said it's work it's important ...

Ummm excuse me ? Is our baby not more important? He can't fly back on Friday night cause he's "drinking" .. so that's really that important than staying at home and not stressing me out for This I scan..

He's dare to turn round to me and say "I'm not bothered for the scan anyway it's you who wanted it"

So I said , your not bothered? Well don't fucking go.

not to mention ... he's booked a clients day out and night to watch rugby a WEEEK before I'm due..

I'm fuming . Any time I wanna speak about it and out my foot down he goes psycho at me shouting how he needs this job... I try telling him family is more important than work !

But it seems like he priorotises it before me...

Any advice on what to say... do ?