Breech baby at 36+4

So I went in for my “37” week appt and my little boy is still breech. I go back Monday for my next appt which is a visit with the dr and another ultrasound to confirm he’s still breech. He has one foot down and one foot on my side. The are not doing an ecv and don’t recommend that I try to turn him or someone else try to turn him. There are way too many risks involved and I’m already high-risk. I am absolutely stressed to the max though. My dr only will deliver on certain days for scheduled c-sections, but of course Thanksgiving falls on the day they “want” to deliver. Unfortunately the dr won’t schedule it for then so my days are all screwed up and all of my family is telling me so many different days that they need me to go on based on their work, school or personal schedules. I’m already scared enough to have a c-section and this isn’t helping. I just need some encouraging words or personal experience stories to help me calm down. 💗