I really need support and advice/opinions?💔

7 years. My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 7th year anniversary....

prepare yourself.

I just found out that he was talking to another girl. They never really hung out or done anything like sexually or kissed (he says) but they definitely had some flirtatious texts.

So I went through his phone early morning to find out he had his girl under another name. I did some investigation and found out that he was hiding someone and decided to call that phone number. It ended up being a girl who answered, shortly she hung up and after I told her I was the gf. Than she calls back and explains that I should delete all her info that she wants nothing to do with him and explained that he lied to her telling her all this bs.

I confronted him and he denied everything and said she was lying ( of course )

So I decided to contact her again and ask for screen shots of everything and here they are.

I am broken.. today I watched him walk out of our daughters and my life. He packed it all up and said he wasn’t coming back.

I feel so guilty, I feel like I should’ve forgave him.. and let him stay.

I know that if I would’ve he would’ve done it again because this isn’t the first time.

This is atleast the 4th time he’s been talking to this girl behind my back in our relationship.

I am sooo broken I am so hurt I feel so betrayed. I trusted him, I thought everything was going so good. I was trying to have another baby with him for the past 2 years. I was begging to become his wife.. he was committed and I had a feeling. I gave him too many chances, I am tired of going through this so that’s why I let him leave. Do y’all consider this cheating? I sure as hell do because that’s not a way to talk to friends..I feel like my life is over, I’ve been with him since I was younger and we grew up together, had a little girl together.. I thought it was forever..

someone give me your opinions

Have you gone through something similar?

How’d it turn out?

Did he come back to you? (What I’m hoping)

Asking for forgiveness?

Please... I need some words of comfort.