I need advice! Bare with me.. (I post ALOT) 38+3

So! Yesterday I had my check up. And I am STILL 1 CM DILATED AND %50 effaced... NO progress there... But I was told if I don't have my little girl by Monday (next appointment) we will be setting an induction date. My friends who have been induced all continually tell me horror stories... That contractions are more painful etc.. But due to my last pregnancy and how stressful and how bad it went... They do not want to repeat that.. So im asking for advice... Should I just wait till monday and set the date? (I mean if i really have a choice haha) or try to induce myself? And in THAT case wtf works?! I have tried EPO, borage seed, walking, extreme sex, spicy foods, pineapple, i am almost going insane. HELP!!-

PICTURE IS FOR ATTENTION CUZ MY BABY IS SO CUTE Haha