If my boyfriends friend pays rent, do I have the right to tell her to stop inviting people over on week nights??

Question

So my boyfriends coworker and her son (he’s 2) is living with us right now because her mom kicked her out of the house. I own the house, my boyfriend does not. Neither does she. The house is only in my name until my boyfriend and I get married (he pays the bills right now. Which is only electricity and water because I bought the house in cash and paid it off so we have no mortgage or anything) 
BUT she does pay $100.00 a month and buys her and her son their own food and all that. So she barely pays anything. Which is fine. 
Anyways she invites people over all the time during the week nights when my boyfriend works early the next mornings and they will stay up and make noise until 1-2AM. My boyfriend says she pays rent so it’s not really fair for us to ask her to stop doing that. But it’s so constant and she’s loud and wakes us up. I never get any sleep now. What would you do? Is it fair for me to tell her to stop doing that even though she does pay $100.00 a month?

Accepted Answer

I voted no before i saw the description and i change my answer to yes because 1. It’s YOUR house 2. She’s only paying $100. 3. Why does she even have people over that late on week days when she has a 2yo?

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Not too sound rude but why are you asking if it’s your HOME? YOUR RULES.

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Why not just tell get to keep it quiet?

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I voted no you cant say no until i read the story! Tell her its your house and she needs to respect that you dont want people over all the time. 
I live with my fiances parents and contribute each month and i still feel nervous or awks if ive had a friend over😂

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I hit no without reading😥 I’d tell her to either be respectful or get out. Your house your rules!

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I almost voted no until I read your description and you ABSOLUTELY have that right. your house. Your rules. You're her landlord and for fucking $100 a month, you get a say in what kind of people are in your living space

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I voted no then read the description, tell her to knock it off or leave. She may pay $100 but that’s honestly nothing.  You bought the house, she’s basically just paying for the water and electricity she wastes.

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If you own the house then you can set any rules you want even if she's paying. It's like renting an apartment, they only allow tenants to have guests stay so many days a year and some don't allow guests to stay at all.

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1. $100 to buy your OWN food is not rent and honestly is not even considered payments. When you go live in an apartment is food included? Psh, no. She should be buying get own food anyways.
2. It is your house so you make the rules. Even if she did pay real rent she has no right to disrupt the owners life in such a way.

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Id say no to not letting her have people over, but you can definitely tell her no people after 10 pm. Shes living in your house, if she wants to have friends over she needs to be respectful

If my boyfriends friend pays rent, do I have the right to tell her to stop inviting people over on week nights??

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