Starting to hate my husband.

I’m really starting to hate my husband. I’m 21 weeks pregnant and right now we’re both home all day long together.. And it’s not healthy. He’s supposed to be looking for another job but isn’t trying very hard. I can’t ask him to leave cause he will just spend money that we don’t have.

When I express how I’m not happy he just says it’s all my fault and it’s cause I’m too uptight. He does nothing around the house and is barely any help with our almost 3 year old. He just sits on his phone all day long and plays video games.. I’m at my wits end.