I think it's time to admit it.... Advice?

It's been one whole year. I've done really well at not stressing about it, doing what I can to up my changes without obsessing. Now I'm starting to wonder if I should have been obsessing this whole time? I stopped prenatals for awhile cause they made me puke every day, is that why? I have a drink now and then cause it helps me relax, is that why? It's soooo hard to track my super long cycles so sometimes I get frustrated and don't bother with OPKs and just BD instead, is that why? Is there an underlying issue I don't know about? Oh and WHY is infertility so expensive and not covered by insurance??

Soooo many questions I have. But I think I'm ready to take the next steps into infertility treatment. Can anyone give me pointers? What should I look for first? What should I try? Am I about to go broke? I have a Dr. Appt in a few weeks to talk with her, what should I ask?

Never thought I'd be here, not sure how to do it.

Thanks.