*Sorry long winded*

Last Tuesday (10/30) I miscarried my second child at a little over 10weeks. My first ultrasound was to just to see if there was any tissue left in utero to plan next steps.

Literally one of the most traumatic experiences I've ever been through.

My husband has been very vocal about, when I'm ready, he wants to try for another. We both want our daughter to have 1or2 siblings. I'm just having a hard time processing and grieving.

We didn't know their sex, saw/heard a heartbeat, or anything... So I get why HE'S having an easier time getting past it, but I have so many unknowns and what ifs.. that I'm having a hard time.

I would like to get like a necklace or something in remeberance like a simple birthstone..

My question is: should I use the due date stone (May-Emerald) or the month of the loss (October-Opal)

I think having something tangible will help me with moving forward and also help if/when we conceive again.

Sorry it's so long, if you made it to the end, God Bless You 💕