Is he wrong for saying this?

Fiance and I experienced a mc in August. Went back to ttc as soon as we could. Well this cycle has been really hard for me emotionally. AF is due tomorrow. I've been taking hpt's since probably 7dpo, I'm now 13dpo. Of course all BFN. So naturally I have been a bit depressed. He told me tonight it's my fault I'm depressed because of testing so much. This was like a knife to the heart, truthfully. Am I overreacting? This actually started a bit of an argument. Maybe I'm just being too sensitive