So I am 21 and my boyfriend is 32. He doesn’t want to have anymore kids after he turns 35 (I’m 24) because he doesn’t want to be so far from his kids age but I won’t be ready to have kids until I’m at least 26 (he’s 37).

On top of this I am very scared to have my own child because I have bad panic attacks when I am around needles and don’t want to hurt my baby by having a panic attack any time they need to use a needle on me.

I’m really unsure of what to do in this situation. Do I try and get him to have just one kid with me when he’s 27 or do I let him have his way and just adopt a child that’s at least 2?