Crazy? Tracking app for SO

Question

Okay me and my SO been on and off for 8 months we had a little break and now we’re back together REALLY this time, we’re both taking it serious.
Now he has done things in the past and from time to time I worry about who’s he with and where’s he at, ( cheated on me before ) but I can see he’s trying to  becoming a better person. 
Would it be crazy is I had that app that tracks where you are, ( tells location, battery percentage, if he or she gets in a car accident, basically everything ) I’ve bring it up before to him and he was okay with it but we never done it.
Would u get this with your SO ? Or would that be pushing it ? ( btw I’m friend who dates my cousin told me about this and they have it and seem fine )

Answer

Listen none of us are perfect and I know that seems like a great idea but it could also be a bad idea.
Ok I’m the cheat on my relationship about 4 years in to our relationship I cheated and thought who gives a fuck, I want to have a great time before I die. Well I got caught and it fucked with him so hard but don’t think my life was fine and dandy it wasn’t I realized that I had fucked up so bad. We got a divorce. Then I don’t know reality kicked in harder after that I tried to be happy tried to forget but what I had done had got the best of me mentally. So I went to him told him I had changed and wanted another chance he was not on board with any of it then after me begging and crying my ass off for days but which felt like eternity.  He finally said we will take it one day at a time great I thought but he told me if I fuck up or he just isn’t happy he was going to walk no explanation needed I would understand. 
Now don’t get me wrong don’t think I wasn’t excited I was so happy but every morning I had to look him in the face hell I had to look at myself in the mirror with the shame and disgust that I had done to our relationship. It really fucked with me hard knowing that I had screwed him up. I had to live with him questioning me everyday just about at first always second guessing me always assuming the worst, but I understood I deserved it I truly felt guilty it was my fault. Well a year later we got married and ten years later we are still together and if nothing the first two years were hard n still time to time he thinks about it and we have to rehash it but just every once in awhile. But it gets easier. But the point of the story is that we are this kick ass couple now we have the best sex that I truly could ever ask for. I hate that I did that to him just like I say it bothers him also but it made us who we are today and with everything that happens it just makes us a better team more stronger and I couldn’t imagine my life any other way. Sometimes you got to have the bad to get to the greater things in life. It taught me a lesson on what love really was and that is something I would of probably never had understood without my life experience. I know now that I treat him like he is the only man in the world cause I had to learn how fucked up I really was to have someone still give me a chance and where I come from second chances don’t come everyday but now I know how lucky I am to have him in my life. If your bf really feels remorse for what he did then just start it with one day at a time you have to rebuild that trust and that app can’t do that that is something only your heart can do. If you use the app you can’t really rebuild your life from ground up. But that is up to you I hope you really read this ad can understand where I am coming from. I’m sorry it is so long but I really just wanted you to know if he really loves you it will get better and if he don’t he will do it again trust your heart and listen to how he is telling you. Cause we usually understand why you feel the way you do and we usually punish ourselves far more than anyone knows. I hope it works out for you no matter what you decide to do. Life is a journey but only you can decide where it takes you! I hoped this helped you. It’s ur relationship and all you can do is what you think is best for your future.

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That’s doin the M O S T + the unstable on and off relationship. I’ve been there and trust me when I say it won’t last. Trust me when I say there’s a man out there who you won’t have any of these issues with, won’t have to worry about tracking him, questioning his character, if he’s being loyal, etc the list goes on. There’s better out there for you and the boy you’re tryna be with now AIN’T IT.

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I wouldn’t, you have to trust him  yes he did his thing in the last. Yes he can change. But if you think or bring up the past it will ruin things.. this is my opinion.. I’m bringing up my past relationship of my ex cheating and I don’t say anything to my now bf. Because I know he’s not.. and it will ruin our relationship

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