Baby shower rant

My baby shower is Saturday my mom is suppose to make baked spaghetti but she’s broke she tells me the day before the shower she thought i was going to buy the stuff

Then she doesn’t have me a gift because she’s broke so when I’m opening gifts from friends and family she just going to be sitting around like she done something

Then i bought her a matching shirt so she wouldn’t feel left out for the shower

My step mom have done everything cake , desserts, paid this lady $450 to decorate made the gifts for the games bought me a crib car seat and stroller she’s becoming a doctor so i understand she has money

My mom isn’t working right now but she hasn’t asked me once did i need help or who’s doing it nothing at all

She’s bakes all the time she could have at least ask to make cupcakes or something

I would have been thankful for that

But she’s pulling this I’m broke card too much and I’m broke myself but I’m making it work

Now she’s mad because i said I’m going to just make the spaghetti myself but am i wrong why should i buy the stuff just to take it to her house to make it when i can make it myself

I’m so mad right now