Babies?

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The father of my baby and I are not together anymore but him and I are still pretty close ( not intimately, because I refuse cuz the situation), today we were talking about his other kids (ages 7 & 8) and he is all excited for our baby ( not due til March) and all of a sudden said "then we can have another one right after" and I looked at him like uhmm no I have things to finish first like school. I'm not having another baby til I'm done with school so when our kids like 2/3 then we will see.. He said he understood but he looked kind of upset.. 😒

Him and I aren't together because of drama with his first bm.. And it's nuts cuz of everything going on.. We were together 4 months (she wasn't even in the picture and was seeing someone else, but found out about the pregnancy and then started a whole mess) but aren't now and this baby isn't even here yet and he's talking about another one.. But we aren't together... Is this weird? Is this his way of telling me something Or am I over reacting lol I'm so confused..

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Look. Don't listen to these girls' negativity-it's not about "that check" and nobody on here really knows the ins and outs of your relationship. Your baby is not a source of income lol Jesus that's what's wrong with women lol AND he may value you as a mother and woman and want that for his children. He can respect you as a woman and mother and not be romantically compatible with you. I say definitely have kids at your own pace, finish school etc. then, when you're ready, consider how YOU feel: do you want more kids with him? Do you trust/respect him as a man and father? I'm not saying settle, but I am saying consider your options and what's your best/safest shot. The world is going to he'll lol you gotta DO YOU and what makes the most sense for you and yours. Good luck!

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It is really strange to talk about that if you are not together in a loving commuted relationship. Do not have another child with him.

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Well yall shouldn't even be talking about kids if your not together. And if yall split over over baby momma drama then what else are you guys going to be "done" with. Either get it together and work it out or stop talking about the chances of children

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Read these words carefully- it's a trap. Who feeds the kids? Who changes diapers? Who takes the kids to school? Who reads to them? Who takes them to the doctor? I bet all the money I have it's not him. Having kids is a trophy to men like this. If he wants more- it's no work for him- so why not. So muster your self esteem and do you.

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Just make sure you get at least 400 a month for child support. The rest is non sense AKA bullshit

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