Sending sexy short videos

So. I'm not sure if this is okay for this group but I think it would be classified as sexting. Anyway, my fiance is away at Job Corps (he's coming home in one month 😊) but I like to tease him. So I was doing some reading on another group and found what some other woman use for.. masturbation.. I send him short quick videos of my playing with myself as a tease. But when I found out what some other woman use for masturbation and sending some videos as teasers I had to find a way to tease him with this. Once I told him what I read, he started (I dont want to say begging me to send a video of my using this item for masturbation) but he was really hoping I would. Long story short, I did a few different short videos of my playing with myself and masturbating with the item, his response was nothing like I was expecting. He said the first 10 seconds he was hard and after he watched all the ones I sent it took him 5+ minutes to go soft again.

(It usually only takes him about a minute to 2 minutes to go soft after being turned on and without having sex) But so I think I will classify this as a success for teasing him and making him hard through texting and short videos. I just had to get it out because I cant talk about this type of stuff with family or friends because they get all weird about sex and talking about sex. Anyway, if you guys have a certain way of teasing your man texting or sending videos, let me know what the are. I'm so curious to find what works for other people.