Death and exclusion

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For the past year I’ve been taking care of my husband’s grandparents. As a household my husband and I have sacrificed so much. Used all our savings and resources while their children casually visited. It wasn’t till the last couple of months that they took an interest. When his daughter was in town, I was always blamed for things and I could always hear thing being said about me in the other room. I never said a word and I turned the other cheek because Grandpa needed me. I loved him as my own.

It’s sad to say that Grandpa passed away on Saturday morning. He went peacefully in his bed with grandma by him. We’re so grateful for that.

Last night they posted the link for the obituary on Facebook and while reading it we noticed that all the spouses were excluded from it. Only children and their children but they mentioned their great-grandson. Which makes me feel terrible for our cousin’s wife because she wasn’t mentioned but the grandson she gave them was.

Why do people have to be so terrible?!