I can’t believe I’m writing this but I need a little advice. We have a one year old daughter ,I also have a 10year old step daughter and now I’m pregnant with another girl. we just found out and my husband is having the worst gender disappointment ever. He is 40 and doesn’t want anymore because he doesn’t want to be old having children. He was set on a boy and I just feel so sad that he reacted this way. He left all day yesterday WITHOUT saying goodbye to his in laws who traveled states for the gender party that were staying in our home and when he got home just went right to bed. Will this go away? I keep trying to tell him it’s gods timing not ours but he’s not here for it. 😩 I’m so excited for another girl, I would’ve loved a boy but it’s not meant to me apparently this time around, just feeling so sad now. 😭😔

NOW TODAY : he said he isn’t happy because the baby is a girl and has continued to be in a horrible mood. He said he has two girls yada yada and it just infuriated me I told him I don’t want him at anymore doctor appts or the delivery ! I’m just so upset he’s making me feel like since she’s a GIRL he doesn’t want her.

And his response was “I’m being pitiful and that the only thing good about having a girl is financially cause she will get all the hammy downs from our one year old. Just hurt

I literally want to explode and cry.

Will this go away because I feel awful! so disappointed in him. Can’t believe he is responding this way.