Oral/Hand-to-Gen Sex Instead of Vaginal

My boyfriend wants to wait until I'm ready for sex. All though he and I know we both want to, we both know I'm not ready. He knows I've been taking the pill for non-contraceptive reasons, and he doesn't want to have sex  w/o using condoms. I'm afraid if we keep stimulating each other, we might go too far one day. Should we stop for the sake of my virginity?