My mother was at my apartment (watching my daughter) and found an old pregnancy test in the trash. She called me to ask if it was mine (no mom, it's the 5 year old's) and how great it is that it was negative and how I don't need another child. Per her opinion: My relationship is rocky (we broke up once and got back together a month later 8 months ago), my finances aren't enough for a child and how great it is that my test was negative. I'm 30 years old, being an adult is something I'm getting good at.

I've been struggling with PCOS and infertility, temping, progesterone pills, stress management and I'm really at a loss what to say.

Then again my mother is very open telling us how she contemplated abortion with my oldest sister, but it "got better" after my sister was born and she went on to have 2 more girls. No, this behavior isn't new, when I was trying on wedding dresses for my 2nd wedding she actually told my future MIL (the first time they met) I could just wear the old dress and no one would know...