Let’s Marvin Gaye - code words

I recently realized I don’t ask for sex directly. My husband now knows what ‘Go freshen up’ means. 🤣 That’s literally code for - we’re going to have sex now. The other day he came up to me and just said ‘I’m all freshened up!’ and it worked 😏 my OCD ass got super turned on.

An aunt of mine says she lays a cream towel on the edge of the bed and my uncle knows it’s all systems go.

I sometimes just put on my sexy playlist & he knows it’s time...

What do you do when you want to get it on? Other than the standard ‘just going for it’ approach