C-section mommas-how are you feeling?

Lindsey
Hey ladies,
I had a c-section on July 14th. I developed a staph infection 3 weeks PP. I was on antibiotics for 10 days. I wanted to see how other mommas that had sections around that time were feeling? What's your pain level? What activities can/can't you do? 
I am very tender and feel like I did a serious ab workout. From below my belly button to under my incision. It's still numb which I've heard won't go away. I'm just not sure what normal feels like. I'm feel uncomfortable still 😩. Also, do you guys still have your belly fat over the incision-like you can't see the incision unless you use a mirror? If you have toddlers at home are you lifting? 
Post pictures! I'd love to see.