The problem: 

My in-laws came to visit for a while month when the baby was born. They stayed in a hotel because my place is very small. But they came to stay a whole day until late night everyday, bbq, partying, drinking and smoking. I had c-section and I'm still breastfeeding. My mother in law was very judgmental and unpleasant. She did no cook or help me to clean my house, I tried hard to keep up with the a good reception for them. My husband worked a whole day, and I was not cooking dinner for him, he would fix his own dinner. Because again, I was recovery from c-section and breastfeeding my newborn. She called him aside and asked him why I don't take care of his dinner. Also, every time my husband cooked dinner for everyone, she commented that if I eat normal food I would make my baby sick/gassy. She made many sour comments like that. I was so relieved when they left, I could finally enjoy my family in peace!