I'm fine with oral and foreplay but it bums me out that I'm not always getting the boom boom lol. I love feeling him inside. He's amazing!!! Should I encourage b him to do it more..I mean ..sometimes ask... but I don't want to have to ask. He's 50 and I don't wanna give him a heart attack but 50 isn't 75. Geez. His favorite position is oral. We'll never get pregnant that way.