Multiple Rounds

Okay ladies I’ve had herpes for almost 2 years now and I’ve learned how to notice my OBs and what I can and cannot eat during treatment etc. ( I am going to try oregano oil)

My question is however that every time I have sexual intercourse the skin around my opening ( like the small area above the gooch) tears. I want to be able to have multiple rounds with my partner and/or morning sex but I’m unsure of how to prevent this from happening. Because as we all know once that happens it’s a wrap