Miscarriage

I understand that miscarriage is hard regardless of how far along you are.

However, and I honestly feel terrible for thinking/feeling this, I don’t feel like your loss at 6 weeks is comparable to my loss at 18 weeks.

And I don’t feel like my loss is comparable to someone experiencing a loss through sids.

I would never tell that person how to cope and I don’t feel like it’s ok for someone who experienced a loss so early on to tell me how to cope.

Again I feel terrible for feeling this way and honestly hope that it’s only because the loss is new and raw. But right now it’s how I feel.

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I know it’s terrible to feel this way. I said that myself in the beginning, but I can’t help that I feel this way.

I would never tell someone to their face that I feel it isn’t comparable, that’s why I came here to share anonymously and get it out.